How to Talk to Children About the Loss of a Pet

For many children, losing a pet is their first experience of grief. These gentle ideas can help.

Be honest, but soft

Avoid “went to sleep.” Try: “She died, which means her body stopped working. We loved her very much and will always remember her.”

Let feelings be okay

Encourage drawing, stories, and memory jars. Remind them it’s okay to feel sad, angry, or confused.

Include them in goodbye rituals

Choosing a photo, a spot for an urn, or a keepsake like a paw print can be healing.